Hmmm? Exactly what are the cuircumstances? and how long have I been holding in that particular problem? Therein lies the answer. It could be a swift eruption or a slow smoldering one. It depends. But it does happen :)
Hold. It. In. I'll suffer in silence for quite a while before I make my feelings known. Unfortunately, by the time it comes out, you come across as bitchy or annoying, so it's maybe not the best approach. Something to work on - plenty of chances living in close quarters with travellers.
I've been known to do both. I've always thought letting it out was the better of the two, but sometimes words don't come out right and end up hurting others. It just depends on what it is, I suppose, and how my reaction affects others.
I hold it in for years!!!!! If you knew me, you'd know how funny that question was. :)
ReplyDeleteHmmm? Exactly what are the cuircumstances? and how long have I been holding in that particular problem? Therein lies the answer. It could be a swift eruption or a slow smoldering one.
ReplyDeleteIt depends. But it does happen :)
Im learning to let it out. But being diplomatic at work.
ReplyDeleteUnfortunately, I just stuff it inside with all the other unexpressed crap.
ReplyDeleteOh, I let it out RIGHT AWAY as a public service to everyone.
ReplyDeleteHold. It. In. I'll suffer in silence for quite a while before I make my feelings known. Unfortunately, by the time it comes out, you come across as bitchy or annoying, so it's maybe not the best approach. Something to work on - plenty of chances living in close quarters with travellers.
ReplyDeleteI've been known to do both. I've always thought letting it out was the better of the two, but sometimes words don't come out right and end up hurting others. It just depends on what it is, I suppose, and how my reaction affects others.
ReplyDeleteAnd LOL @ Green Girl's reply! :)
I always hold it in. Not always the best idea.
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